As a Certified Divorce Coach, I often see parents arguing and fighting over the custody of their minor children. It is sad to watch because this is what tears families apart and damages the co-parenting relationship. No one wins in this situation and especially not the innocent children involved.
One of the benefits of hiring a Certified Divorce Coach is the training we receive to assist families in setting boundaries and creating better communication skills. The children’s emotional wellbeing and stability should always be put first.
One of the most painful parts of your divorce may be facing the possibility of losing custody of your kids. If you’re in a custody battle, it’s crucial to avoid any actions – both in and outside of court – that may turn the tables against you.
1. Ignoring your visitations. The court system pays attention to parent behavior during the custody trials.
2. Threatening your ex. The court system takes threats seriously, and you may not be aware that your ex is recording every conversation.
3. Physical confrontations. Avoid physical confrontations that can escalate and lead to violence. Your ex can make you angry, but you must demonstrate self-control and learn how to handle the frustration without outbursts or aggression.
4. Moving in with a new partner. You may be eager to start your new life but moving in with a new partner can sabotage your custody battle.
5. Criticizing your ex in front of others. Divorce and custody proceedings can be filled with anger, animosity, and frustration. However, it is important to avoid criticizing your previous partner in front of others because it can backfire. They may use the criticism they hear against you, even if you feel your criticism is justified.
6. Refusing to pay child support. Even if you’re in the middle of a custody battle to take the children from your ex, you must continue to pay child support.
Custody battles can be complex and messy, so it is easy to sabotage them. Learn to avoid the common mistakes that create challenges, and you will have a stronger case.
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