Seven Spiritual Laws for Divorce Healing

Turning Pain into Power with Spiritual Principles That Really Work

When I was going through my divorce, I felt emotionally broken, spiritually exhausted, and lost. Seeking a new identity and career I turned to the world of coaching and energy healing. The very first coaching certification program I enrolled in was through Christie Whitman’s Quantum Success Coaching Academy. It was a year-long deep dive into the Law of Attraction and six other powerful Universal Laws. That training was more than educational, it was life changing. The deep self-healing that transpired over the year had truly transformed my life and boosted my self-confidence and self-esteem.

These seven laws became the spiritual framework I leaned on while navigating the loss of my marriage. Now, I share them with other women who are trying to find themselves again after divorce. Whether you’re just beginning your healing or already somewhere along the path, these laws can support you emotionally, spiritually, and energetically.

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1. The Law of Attraction

This law teaches us that what we focus on, we attract more of. After a breakup, it’s easy to get stuck in thoughts about everything that went wrong. But the Law of Attraction invites us to shift our focus toward what we do want—peace, healing, new beginnings, and genuine love.

Try these affirmations:

I am attracting peace, clarity, and emotional freedom.

My thoughts are creating space for new and beautiful things.

I choose to focus on what lifts me up.

2. The Law of Deliberate Creation

This law is about being intentional. Instead of just reacting to life, you get to co-create it. You get to decide how you want to feel, what kind of life you want next, and how you want to show up each day. Divorce gives you a blank canvas. What will you paint?

Try these affirmations:

I am the creator of my next chapter.

I choose thoughts and actions that move me forward.

My healing is unfolding with clarity and purpose.

3. The Law of Allowing

Healing doesn’t mean forcing yourself to “get over it.” This law is all about softening and making room for all your feelings without judgment. It reminds you to give yourself grace. You don’t need to fix yourself—you need to feel yourself.

Try these affirmations:

I allow myself to feel, grieve, and grow.

I trust that each emotion is part of my healing journey.

I don’t have to rush; I am right where I need to be.

4. The Law of Sufficiency and Abundance

Divorce can stir up feelings of “not enough”—not loved enough, not safe enough, not secure enough. But this law teaches us that we already are enough, and there is more than enough love, opportunity, and support available to us.

Try these affirmations:

I am enough exactly as I am.

I am supported by a loving and abundant universe.

I trust that what I need is always provided.

5. The Law of Pure Potentiality

You are not defined by your past. You are an infinite being with unlimited potential. Even if you’ve forgotten who you are, this law reminds you that your spirit is capable of starting fresh, dreaming again, and creating something beautiful.

Try these affirmations:

I am open to new possibilities and new dreams.

My future holds more joy than I can imagine.

I am ready to rise into my true potential.

6. The Law of Detachment

This is the law that helps you loosen your grip on control. Sometimes, when we’re hurting, we try to control how things unfold. But real peace comes when we surrender and trust that life is always working on our behalf—even when we don’t understand how just yet.

Try these affirmations:

I release control and trust the divine plan.

I surrender outcomes and choose peace in the now.

What’s meant for me will come in perfect time.

7. The Law of Polarity

This law reminds us that everything has its opposite. Light and dark. Joy and pain. Love and loss. If you’re feeling low, this law gently reminds you that the contrast is temporary—and often necessary. It’s through the pain that you discover your strength and your deeper purpose.

Try these affirmations:

Every challenge brings wisdom and clarity.

I honor the pain, but I also welcome the light.

This ending is creating space for a beautiful new beginning.

These seven laws have been spiritual life rafts for me—and now, I pass them on to you. You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to be willing to believe that healing is possible, and that you are worthy of the joy and love that still awaits you.

If you’re ready to begin your healing journey with someone who understands both.

Leslie Welch

CDC®, LOA || Heart to Soul Divorce Coach